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How I Stopped Dating the Wrong Guys
Don’t look for love, rather resonate with love
I was dating emotionally unavailable partners, going from one relationship to the next only to find another unhappy relationship. The experiences were heartbreaking and confusing. No matter how hard I tried to manifest, “the one” I kept coming up short time after time. I finally realized that finding the right partner isn’t about luck or even manifesting, it's about knowing yourself.
Looking for love in all the wrong places
When you really want to find a partner, you will try anything. Dating apps, bars, clubs, blind dates. The hope that love will come into your life is a strong one, as long as you put yourself out there, the right one will come along, right? Not in my experience, in fact, if you are looking for love high and low, chances are you are running a bit of a scarcity pattern.
What I mean by that is we can get fixated on not having someone, and wanting to fill that void. It puts out the message that we don’t have enough love in our life, and are craving it. Whether it be for attention, or to feel a sense of self-worth, it’s not for the right reasons.
You don’t want to look for love at all, but rather resonate with love. Find love within, for yourself, who you are, the…
