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If Your Relationship Sucks, Leave it
It’s time to live your life for you
For many, many, years I suffered under the delusion that in order to be a happy, productive, and whole person I had to be in a relationship. I wanted the fairytale, I wanted to feel like I had found “the one”.
I learned that there are a lot of people that seem like “the one” and when you are thirsty enough for it, you will be easily misled. The lack of self-love that I perpetuated by my choices was staggering. Yet, I continued on, through many long and arduous relationships that did not make me happy, productive, or whole in any way shape, or form.
What I wish I had realized earlier, is sometimes we misfire, and we choose the wrong one. We choose the wrong one because we are so out of synch with ourselves that we need that bad relationship to wake up.
The bottom line is if your relationship sucks, don't try to fix it, or worse try to fix the other person. Leave, and focus on yourself.
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