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Signs Women Send When They Aren’t Into You

Women’s dating secrets revealed

Jocelyn Joy Thomas
4 min readMar 18, 2022
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Subtle and not-so-subtle signs are often missed by men (and women too). It’s pretty simple most of the time but a little effort to listen and read signs will make a big difference.

She drifts away

A lot of women don't want to be blunt and hurt your feelings, so they will drift away. Slowly the method, frequency, and amount you speak will decline. You might get a text instead of a call, then a delayed response in texts, and texts will be shorter, and blander.

When directly asked she may say she is just busy, tired, or has some other issue but that isn't exactly true. She just doesn't want to come right out and say it and hopes you will take the hint.

What to do- Fade away yourself, if she is interested she will contact you again, if she isn't she will be relieved.

She brings up a boyfriend

She isn't going to be talking about her boyfriend (past or present) if she is interested in you. Whether the boyfriend is real or not this is a standard go-away, tactic.

What to do- She could be friend-zoning you, so if you like her as a person, not someone to date, try being friends. Women really like having friends and not always…

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Jocelyn Joy Thomas
Jocelyn Joy Thomas

Written by Jocelyn Joy Thomas

Author, spiritual teacher, and intuitive reader. Writing is my passion and purpose. My shop...https://jocelynjoythomas.company.site/

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