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Why We Stay in Bad Relationships
4 reasons why leaving is hard to do
Being in a bad relationship isn't always obvious to those within it. As with any relationship, there are good and bad components. People are drawn together for a myriad of reasons. Compatibility, and how we relate to one another form whether or not the relationship will thrive. As do many other factors such as maturity, faithfulness, and communication to name a few.
If you are in a relationship that you suspect is not healthy (or know someone who is), why stay? The reasons aren’t always obvious some are based on very deep-rooted beliefs, fears, and patterns you may harbor. Knowing why you stay can help you decide if you want to continue to. Explore the following and observe how you feel, and what comes up as you do.
Familiarity
Unhealthy relationships have a way of forming fast, the partners quickly become very close and develop routines together. This behavior often stems from jealous and controlling patterns in one or both of the partners.
Being inseparable right from the start does not mean you are in a bad relationship many healthy ones start that way, but look to the reasons why you are so close so fast and make sure they are healthy ones.
